ONE ANOTHERING
For none of us lives to himself alone, and none of us dies unto himself alone. If we live, we live to the Lord; and if we die, we die to the Lord. So whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord. –ROMANS 14:7
This whole chapter is dynamite. It deserves to be read, re-read; taken apart and taken to heart; digested and assimilated by every person claiming to be a child of God.
It introduces some radical concepts, which taken to their logical conclusions; would begin to change us and the church almost over-night. We would begin to be changed from what we are to what we can be for God—what He truly wants us to be
Thoroughly ingested, it would result in church growth from within and without. From within by reason of elimination of some of the thought patterns that stymie our spiritual growth. From without by reason of spectators not knowing what it was we had—but being convinced that whatever it is; they would want in on it, too.
Mission awareness would dramatically increase.
Church giving problems would virtually disappear.
Personal conflicts within the church would be pretty much a thing of the past.
What is it I am talking about? I am talking about a conceptual change in our spiritual being. I am talking of changing our focus from what we personally like and prefer to what is good in the sight of God for our brothers and sisters.
The label for this conceptual change is “One-Anothering”!
Right now I would like to take you on a rapid journey through the pages of God’s word to visit some of the sites that list thirty-five different commands of how we are to treat each other.
FOR STARTERS; LET US LOOK AT THE THINGS ON THE NEGATIVE SIDE OF THE LEDGER.
To begin with—we are not to judge or adversely challenge one another.
Let us therefore stop passing judgment on one another. Instead make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in your brother’s way. – ROMANS 14:13
We are not to envy or provoke one another, lie to one another, or speak evil against one another.
Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying one another. –GALATIANS 5:26
Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices. –COLOSSIANS 3:9
Brothers, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against his brother speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping it, but sitting in judgment on it. –JAMES 4:11
We are told not to complain against one another or repay one another for evil.
Don’t grumble against each other, brothers, or you will be judged. The judge is standing at the door. –JAMES 5:9
Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else. -I THESSALONIANS 5:15.
Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible; as far as it depends upon you, live at peace with one another. Do not take revenge my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to repay, I will repay”, says the Lord. On the contrary, if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him to drink. For in so doing you will heap coals of fire upon his head. –ROMANS 12:17-20
Can you imagine the change in us that would result if each of us always took each of these teachings to heart and lived them out day by day?
Can you imagine the impact this could have on those who are outside of the church who are looking to see what we mean by what we say?
The world will not be swayed, enticed or converted by a church consisting of members who insist on their rights to act like the rest of the world.
BUT WAIT, THERE’S MORE. LET’S MOVE OVER TO THE POSITIVE SIDE OF THE LEDGER.
Eleven separate times the Holy Spirit commands members of the church to love one another. It is by far the most reinforced of all of the “One Another” commands.
See ROMANS 13:8; I THESSALONIANS 3:12 & 4:9; I PETER 1:22 & 4:8; I JOHN 3:11, 23 & 4:7, 11 & 12; & II JOHN 5.
The command to love one another is the fountain-head of all of the other “One Another” commands. And it finds its roots in Jesus’ commandment to love our neighbor even as ourselves. All other “One Another” commands are merely an explanation of how we are to practice our love.
We are commanded to be devoted to one another; build up one another; bear the weaknesses of one another; please our neighbors for their good, and care for one another.
Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. –ROMANS 12:10
Let us therefore make every effort to do whatever leads to peace and mutual understanding. –ROMANS 14:19
Therefore, encourage one another and build up each other, even as you are doing. –I THESSALONIANS 5:11
We who are strong ought to bear the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. Each of us should please his neighbor for his good, to build him up—even as Christ did not please Himself. –ROMANS 15: 1-3a
Nobody should seek the good of himself, but the good of others. –I CORINTHIANS 10:24
So that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. –I CORINTHIANS 12:25
Because we are put together by God in the same body; God admonishes us to be the same mind one toward another; accept one another; serve one another through love; bear one another’s burdens; and show forbearance to one another in love.
May the God who gives you endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus! –ROMANS 15:5
Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. -ROMANS 15:7
I appeal to you brethren, in the name of Jesus Christ that you all speak the same thing; that there be no divisions among you; but rather that you be perfectly joined together in the same mind and judgment. – I CORINTHIANS 1:10
You, my brethren, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge your sinful nature; rather serve one another in love. –GALATIANS 5:13
Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. –GALATIANS 6:2
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. –EPHESIANS 4:2
Bear with each other, and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. –COLOSSIANS 3:13
Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms. –I PETER 4:8-10
Using our spiritual gifts, we are to speak truth to one another; speaking to one another in psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs; comforting and encouraging one another. –EPHESIANS 5:19
Therefore, each of us must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body. –EPHESIANS 4:25
I myself am convinced, my brothers, that you are full of goodness, complete in knowledge and competent to instruct one another. –ROMANS 15:14
Therefore encourage one another with these words… Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. –I THESSALONIANS 4:18 & 5:11
But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness. –HEBREWS 3:11
As we do these things, we need to consider how we may stimulate one another to love and good deeds, to seek after good for one another; and how to live in peace with one another, being kind and tender-hearted toward one another.
And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up the practice of meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching. –HEBREWS 10:24 & 25
Hold them in the highest regard in love…live in peace with each other…encourage the timid, help the weak, be patient with everyone. Make sure that no one pays back wrong for wrong, but always be kind to each other and to everyone else. –I THESSALONIANS 5:13-15
Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as in Christ, God forgave you. –EPHESIANS 4:32
The glorious end result—we will wind up being subject to one another, with humility of mind, regarding one another as being more important.
Submit to one another out of reverence for Jesus Christ. –EPHESIANS 5:21
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than your selves. –PHILIPPIANS 2:3
Young men, in the same way, be submissive to those who are older. All of you clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble. –I PETER 5:5
This change in mindset will make it easier to follow more of God’s ONE ANOTHER commands—to confess our sins to one another, to pray for one another, and to be hospitable to one another.
Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other that you may be perfect and healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective. -JAMES 5:16
Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. –I PETER 4:9
And becoming acclimated to practicing these virtuous and loving actions; how easy will it be to obey the five-time repeated scriptural command—TO GREET ONE ANOTHER WITH A HOLY KISS [hug, handshake or assorted other greeting]. See ROMANS 16:16; I CORINTHIANS 16:20; II CORINTHIANS 16:12; I PETER 5:14; I THESSALONIANS 5:26
By now you are probably shaking your head and saying; “Boy, I didn’t know God put all of that stuff in there!”
Our opening text started out with “For none of us lives to himself alone, and none of us dies to himself alone. ROMANS 14:7.
That is the essence of all we have read from God’s Word this morning. God keeps hammering away at this one idea. Real life, true life; the kind of life God calls us to live can never ultimately be centered in self.
Oh, I know that we must think enough about ourselves to be concerned about our own salvation. We are commanded to save ourselves from this untoward generation…to work out our own salvation with fear and trembling. That’s a given.
But above and beyond that, we are to be concerned about the welfare of others.
And in so doing the second we actually enhance the first—because God’s word tells us time and time again, whatsoever we do unto others will be done unto us.
In doing good for others, we are actually doing good for ourselves! THINK ABOUT IT!!
I would like to close out by sharing with you a couple of word portraits borrowed from one of William Barclay’s commentaries—one portrait of heaven and the other one of hell.
Portrait number one pictures a bunch of souls gathered around a large table. In the center of that table is a large bowl, filled to overflowing. Each soul gathered around that table has a long spoon strapped to his wrist. This arrangement allows each soul gathered around that table to readily dip into that bowl. But each one gathered around that table is emaciated—starving. Why? The reason is simple. Each individual gathered around that table is trying to feed his or her own self with that long spoon. And try as they might they can’t manage to position that spoon in such a way as to get it into their own mouth. This is the picture of hell.
The portrait of heaven is much the same—with one distinct difference. Each of the souls gathered around that table are feeding one another, making use of the long spoons strapped to their wrists. The end result is that everybody is fed and happy.
I ask you, considering all of the scriptures I have shared with you in this article: is it just possible that these word portraits may have greater truth than what we are generally willing to concede. Is it just possible that our willingness to be “other-centered” in this life may have a direct bearing on where we are going to wind up in the here-after? Before you dismiss that possibility I would urge you to review each of those “One-Another” verses I have shared with you!
Your Brother in Christ…Howard
JELLY BEANS
The four of us were new Christians when we ran across the verse during our family Bible reading, “If your enemy is hungry, feed him.” ROMANS12:20
Our sons; aged seven and ten at the time, were especially puzzled. “Why should you feed your enemies?” they wondered. My husband and I wondered too, but the only answer John could come up to give to the boys was, “Because God’s Word says so.” It never occurred to us that we would very shortly learn the why of it all by experience.
Day after day John Jr. came home from school complaining about a classmate who sat behind him in fifth grade. “Bob keeps jabbing me when Miss Smith isn’t looking. One of these days when we’re out on the playground, I’m going to jab him back!”
I was ready to go to school and jab Bob myself. Obviously the boy was a brat. Besides, why wasn’t Miss Smith doing a better job with her kids? I’d better give her an oral jab, too, at the same time!
I was still stewing and fuming over this injustice to John Jr. when his seven-year-old brother spoke up: “Maybe he should feed his enemy.” The three of us were startled. None of us were quite sure about this “enemy” business. It didn’t seem that an enemy would be in the fifth grade. An enemy was someone who was far off…well, somewhere. Exactly where, however, remained a bit vague!
We all looked at my husband. Since he was the head of the family, he should come up with the solution. But the only answer he could offer was the same one he gave before: “Because God says so.”
“Well, if God says so, you’d better do it,” I told John Jr. “Do you know what Bob likes to eat? If you’re going to feed him, you may as well get him something he likes.”
Our older son thought for a moment. “Jelly beans,” he shouted. “Bob just loves jelly beans!”
So we bought a bag of jelly beans for him to take to school the next day. We would see if this enemy feeding worked or not.
That night we discussed the strategy to be used. When Bob jabbed John Jr. in the back the next time, John would simply turn around and deposit the bag of jelly beans on his enemy’s desk.
The next afternoon I watched and waited impatiently for the yellow school bus to pull up; then I dashed out the door to meet the boys before they even got halfway to the house.
John Jr. called ahead, “It worked, Mom, it worked.” His little brother claimed credit. “Hey, remember it was me who thought it up.”
I wanted details: “What did Bob do? What did he say?”
He was so surprised he didn’t say anything—he just took the jellybeans. But he didn’t jab me for the rest of the day!”
Well, it wasn’t long before John Jr. and Bob became the best of friends—all because of a little bag of jelly beans.
Both of our sons subsequently became missionaries on foreign fields. Their way to show friendship with any “enemies of the faith” has been to invite the inhabitants of those countries into their own homes to share food with them around their own tables.
It seems “enemies” are always hungry. Maybe that’s why God said to feed them.
-Isabel Champ Wolseley
A SICK AMERICAN
There are those who claim that ours is a sick society; that our country is sick, our government is sick; that we are sick. Well, maybe they are right. I submit that I am sick…and maybe you are too.
I am sick of having policemen ridiculed and called “pigs” while cop killers are hailed as some kind of hero.
I am sick of being told that religion is the opiate of the people, but marijuana should be legalized.
I am sick of commentators and columnists canonizing anarchists, revolutionaries and rapists, but condemning law enforcement when such criminals are brought to justice.
I am sick of being told that pornography is the right of free press, but freedom of the press does not include being able to read the Bible on school grounds.
I am sick of paying more and more taxes to build schools while I see some faculty members
encouraging students to either tear them down or burn them.
I am sick of Supreme Court Decisions that turn criminals loose on society—while other decisions try to take away my means of protecting my home and family.
I am sick of pot smoking entertainers deluging me with their condemnation of my moral standards on late night television.
I am sick of being told that policemen are mad dogs, who should not have guns, but criminals, who use guns to rob, maim and murder should be understood and helped back to society.
I am sick of being told that it is wrong to use napalm to end a war overseas—but if it is a Molotov cocktail at home, I must understand the provocation.
I am sick of not being able to take my family to a movie unless I want to have them exposed to nudity, homosexuality, and the glorification of narcotics.
I am sick of riots, marches, protests, demonstrations, and the other mob temper tantrums of people intellectually incapable of working within the system.
I am sick of hearing the same phrases, the same slick slogans, the cries of people who must chant the same thing like zombies because they haven’t the capacity for verbalizing thought.
I am sick of those who say that I owe them this or that because of the sins of my forefathers—when I have looked down both ends of a gun barrel to defend their rights, their liberties, their families.
I am sick of cynical attitudes towards patriotism. I am sick of politicians with no backbone. I am sick of permissiveness. I am sick of the dirty, the foul-mouthed; the unwashed. I am sick of the decline of personal honesty, personal integrity, and human sincerity.
Most of all, though, I am sick of being told that I am sick! I am sick of being told that my country is sick—when we have the greatest nation that has ever been brought forth on the face of this earth. Fully fifty per cent of the people of the world would willingly trade places with the most deprived, the most underprivileged amongst us.
Yes, I may be sick, but if I am only sick, I can get well. I can also help my society get well—and help my country get well.
Take note, all of you…You will not find me throwing a rock or a bomb; you will not find me under a placard; you will not see me take to the streets; you will not find me ranting to wild-eyed mobs. You will find me at work, paying taxes, serving in the community where I live. You will also find me expressing my anger and indignation to elected officials.
You will find me speaking out in support of those officials, institutions, and personalities who contribute to the elevation of society and not its destruction. You will find me contributing my time, money, and personal influence to help churches, hospitals, charities and other establishments which have shown the true spirit of this country’s determination to ease pain and suffering, eliminate hunger and generate brotherhood.
-Pat Michaels of Radio Station KGO
[The above mentioned article was taken from the conclusion of Mr. Michael’s speech at the 8th Annual Policemen-Fireman Awards Breakfast in Oakland, California.]
MEN WHO PAID FREEDOM’S PRICE
On July 4, 1776, there was signed in the city of Philadelphia one of America’s historic documents: The Declaration of Independence. It marked the birth of this nation which under God, was destined for world leadership.
We often forget that in declaring independence from earthly power, our forefathers made a forthright declaration of dependence upon Almighty God.
The closing words of this document solemnly declare: “With a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our lives, our fortunes and our sacred honor.”
The fifty-six courageous men who signed that document understood that this was not just high-sounding rhetoric. They knew if they succeeded, the best they could expect would be years of hardship in a struggling new nation. If they lost, they would face a hangman’s noose as traitors.
Of the fifty-six, few were long to survive. Five were captured by the British and tortured before they died. Twelve had their homes from Rhode Island to Charleston, sacked, looted, occupied by the enemy, or burned. Two lost their sons in the army. One had two sons that were captured. Nine of the fifty-six died in the war, from its hardships or from its bullets.
Whatever ideas you have of the men who met that hot summer in Philadelphia, it is important that we remember certain facts about the men who made this pledge: they were not poor men, or wild-eyed pirates. They were men of means; many of them were rich men who enjoyed much ease and luxury in their personal lives. They were not hungry men, but prosperous, wealthy land owners, substantially secure in their prosperity, and respected in their communities
But they considered liberty much more important than the security they enjoyed, and they pledged their lives, their fortunes, and their sacred honor. They fulfilled their pledges.
Someone has said, “To be born free is a privilege. To die free is an awesome responsibility.” Yet freedom is never free. It is always purchased at great cost.
Little did John Adams know how significant his words would be when he spoke to his wife Abigail, on the passing of the Declaration of Independence and said, “I am well aware of the toil, and blood, and treasure, that it will cost to maintain to maintain this declaration, and support and defend these states; yet, through all the gloom I can see the rays of light and glory. I can see that the end is worth more than all the means.”
To those who sacrificed for our freedom, the end was worth the painful means. Where would we, who are citizens of the United States of America, be today if there had not been those who counted the cost of freedom and willingly paid for it? Where will we be tomorrow if men and women of integrity do not come forward today and pay the price to reclaim a dying America?
-The Sunnyview Horizon